Isn’t it something to be thankful about? You get two strikes before striking out on the third in baseball. Or worse be on your third strike in committing crimes before you will be in prison for life without the possibility of parole.
Relationships have its covert yet understandable rules of the thumb. The attempt to apply three-strike rule in relationships will send some people hollering at its productivity and ability to resolve marital issues in relationships. Realists believe that you can borrow some facts but you cannot apply the whole rule itself.
Regardless of its beguiling baseball metaphor, this rule is a loser. What happens before the relationship doesn’t really matter and you don’t have to count every relationship you have and shout ‘strike one.’
Update a New Defensive Playbook
The wonderful thing about relationships is that your relationship is unique to you and the other person in the relationship. You don’t have to play by the same rules that work for others. You can write your own – together.
Cheating might be something that you won’t tolerate from a partner. If you strongly agree with this usual trend in relationship these days, then don’t wait for the second strike, strike it out before it strikes you out.
Stronger relationships are definitely not immune to cheating. But if you feel you can still work it out before someone waves a white flag, then work it out and write your happy ending.
Why Infidelity?
This is an important question. Why is it that cheating is somehow the big taboo? Even most people who have been through cheating say it isn’t the act itself that was so reprehensible but the other things that went along with it. The sneaking around, telling lies, and complete withdrawal from the relationship.
But, if you are really going to decide to delve down deeper into the act, you will be surprised to see that cheating itself is just the final destination of a long been neglected line of problems lying quiescent. In other words, cheating is not the big catch.
But, when you really get down to it, the cheating isn’t the ultimate problem. It’s the baggage that goes along with the cheating that brings the relationship down like a stack of cards. Find a way to overcome the surplus and you can save your relationship much easier – even after cheating.
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